Sandra and Jesse

Oh, my oh my! Oh, dear oh dear! What have we here!  A mess ,really, and a sad and painful one, too. Perhaps Sandra bought into the cultural myth and old wive's tale that all it takes is the love of a good woman to reform a man. If only it were that simple! I'm afraid no one has the power to change anybody else. However, the good news is we can change ourselves.It's a hard life lesson but the truth of the matter is that more often than not, love is not enough to sustain a relationship.  Any successful relationship needs to be built on a firm foundation of trust and respect with a healthy dose of empathy for your partner. It's that lack of empathy which allows men and women to 'act-out' in destructive and hurtful ways.

So, looking at Sandra's and Jesse's numbers what do we see.  The first thing that I noticed was that their first names do not share any vowels.  Vowels symbolize the 'Soul' and the emotions of language., so if a couple shares no vowels it's usually not a good sign.  In fact, it's noteworthy that they even got together in the first place. 

A second thing I noticed is that Bullock has a preponderence of letters ('u','l' and 'c') which correspond to the number '3'. In fact, she has a double 'l', so these '3' traits are even more influential. '3's are the charmers and entertainers. They are the Optimists, always finding the good in people which others may overlook or disregard. This certainly may have been happening in her marriage with Jesse until the reality just became too overwhelming for her to sugarcoat whatever doubts she may have been harboring any longer. As we know all too well, hope dies hard.

On the other hand, Jesse's name is dominated by letters (;j','s','a') which correspond to the number '1' which  emits a very powerful frequency. '1's like to be the leaders of the pack and enjoy setting the pace for everyone else.  They're self-sufficient and autonomous making longterm realtionships a challenge. Notice, too, that Jesse has a double 's', so these '1' traits become particulary pronounced. Now, when a '1' goes awry their negative characteristics can include bossiness, egoism and shelfishness which I think is a fair assessment of what happened with him .